Justification gives a strong motive for creating reasons of unwanted actions. You must pay but you'd be socially responsible. You must get education but you'd be socially acceptable. You must behave but you'd be welcomed in the community. "She will hate me if I say this" is (usually) the justification that he won't say things that he would consider anti-social.
In case, however, the justification is stronger than he can manage, the psychology of compensation dominates his actions. "If I can not say this, nobody should." In a sense, it is the sentiment of a slave, defeated by the power of the master. If he loves her, perhaps, he could be the slave of his own emotion. What if he is the slave of other powerful group of people?
The case could get worse. The justification overwhelms his reasons. Just as that he can not say it himself, with his justification, he claims she should say things on her own. Compensating the gain by loss. Compensating the abuse by abuse.
Self-harming, is anti-social. Most of the nations on earth criminalize suicides. If you press someone for a suicide, you will be punished by the law. What of the case with the self-censorship? What of the case with harming self and claims it is "for her"? What of the case with his justification of hurting her despite his love? What if he urges her into the action that she knows would herself?
The logic of slavery dictates forcing self-harm on others. With or without his justification,
In case, however, the justification is stronger than he can manage, the psychology of compensation dominates his actions. "If I can not say this, nobody should." In a sense, it is the sentiment of a slave, defeated by the power of the master. If he loves her, perhaps, he could be the slave of his own emotion. What if he is the slave of other powerful group of people?
The case could get worse. The justification overwhelms his reasons. Just as that he can not say it himself, with his justification, he claims she should say things on her own. Compensating the gain by loss. Compensating the abuse by abuse.
Self-harming, is anti-social. Most of the nations on earth criminalize suicides. If you press someone for a suicide, you will be punished by the law. What of the case with the self-censorship? What of the case with harming self and claims it is "for her"? What of the case with his justification of hurting her despite his love? What if he urges her into the action that she knows would herself?
The logic of slavery dictates forcing self-harm on others. With or without his justification,