We are different in terms of the purpose of life. We are different in the objective life. We differ in the way we achieve the objectives.
The virtue that all of us hold as the eternal guideline of life differs. Suggesting the opposite is just humiliating the individual. Yes, even in the form of a question.
Treating an individual as a shoplifter is humiliating. The question of English fluency may indicate racial prejudice. The underlying assumption is what we term as dignity. We strive for excellence just for that image the interrogator demolished.
Do we have allies? There should be. Not all of us ever tolerate the arrogance of the insensitive. Brutality, the crime against humanity, is of power only for a short while. The dullness, the insensitivity is strength just for the moment. Overall care and compassion will win in the end.
If one indicates annoyance, take heed. Romantic or not so romantic foolish movies are humiliating and all that depends on who are watching. It is beyond ridiculous expecting a positive opinion of such entertainment while one is expressing disgust.
Is humanity weakness? No, democracy has it in the way that it is not. Disgust against inhumanity can go afar. We have allies. Together, we will fight against the inhumanity. Compassion will win in the end.